Giggly of excitement and wine we start browsing through the guys.
Soon everyone around the table is engaged and with breezing cheeks we compare the hundreds of men who show up on the screen. The most exciting is that there are men that I would never otherwise get in touch with. Rammed I and Alva have decided to give tinder a serious chance, and at the same time challenge each other for a few months – Let The Dating Game Begin!
The next morning I wake up with pounding temples and stretch me as usual after the phone at the nightstand to deal with the evening with my friends and scan of social media. Above the tinder icon it stands a seven. The curious clicks me into the app and meets by seven guys who wrote messages to me while I slept. I decide to answer them all and in the next few days I chat more than I have done since MSN hit through at the millennium. After a week it is clear that some conversations make me smile more than others, and when three of the guys offer me on the date I thank yes.
But as serious reporter, I also contact Rosette Pambakian, spokesperson on Tinder in Los Angeles, and asks who tinder really is for. My self is craving the classic romance and real dates, but not necessarily the love of my life. Some dating sites can feel too serious because it takes a long time to get started, and you talk long before you decide to be seen, while others are mainly used to find someone for the evening. So how’s it really with tinder: love or lie?
-Shift is to present two people for each other regardless of whether it is friendship, dating or the great love. Tinder is for everyone! says Rosette.
She believes that the app has quickly become so popular because it mimics our natural behavior in a way that no other dating service does, because tinder retrieves information from Facebook.
– When you go into a room, the physical appearance is the first thing you notice with a new person. But when you start talking to each other, you look for common denominators, as friends and interests, to create a trust between you. Tinder is built in the same way, except that the app at once shows if you have something in common with other users.
The week thereon is fully booked by dates. On Tuesday I’ll meet a guy for drinking coffee in a coffee shop in town.